Self-Review Checklist:

- [x] I've reviewed my own diff for quality, security, and reliability
- [x] Unsafe blocks (if any) have justifying comments
- [x] The content is consistent with the [UI/UX
checklist](https://github.com/zed-industries/zed/blob/main/CONTRIBUTING.md#uiux-checklist)
- [x] Tests cover the new/changed behavior
- [x] Performance impact has been considered and is acceptable

Closes https://github.com/zed-industries/zed/issues/56064

This behavior regressed in
https://github.com/zed-industries/zed/pull/54481

Release Notes:

- Fixed an issue where broken symlinks, permission errors, or other fs
errors in watched directories could cause excessive CPU usage