feat(netflow-db): add a consuming merge mode that bounds peak disk

merge-shards --consume validates every shard first, moves the first
shard into the temporary output, and deletes each other shard once its
rows are durably committed. A failure keeps the partial product and
names the consumed shards and the resume command.
1bb81c5b31flamboh committed on 9/27/2026, 4:40:26 AMparent9dc43a9
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