Prevent desktop dev Electron process leaks during restarts

- replace `electronmon` with explicit Electron spawn/stop lifecycle management
- debounce file-watch restarts for main/preload/server build outputs
- add stale-process cleanup and forced child-tree shutdown fallback
07aaf37fd4Julius Marminge committed on 3/4/2026, 5:58:22 PM· committed by Julius Marmingeparent65a8088
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