feat: control thread resume during updates

Group selectable updates by device and keep versions below their titles.
Carry the per-update resume choice through saved plans, native installs,
and server recovery without changing saved continuation settings.

Require backend acknowledgement before a resume-off restart. Preserve
legacy installs and refuse unsupported hosts, including running WSL.
Discard stale policy messages and avoid update storage reads while idle.
a2562316fdBil0000 committed on 10/23/2026, 12:59:16 AMparent0ee66d1
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