This PR adds a parameter to the `theme2::init` method to indicate what
the theme-loading behavior should be.

This allows us to indicate when we want to load all of the additional
built-in user themes (like in the Zed binary and in the storybook), and
when we don't want to load the user themes (like in tests).

We're using an enum over just a `bool` here for clarity at the call
site.

Release Notes:

- N/A