Use the `.selected` style for buffer search option buttons (#4000)

This PR updates the `IconButton`s used to control the buffer search
options to use the `.selected` state to denote when they are active.
This matches what we are doing in the project search.

This should improve the contrast in certain themes.

Release Notes:

- Improved the active style for the search options in buffer search.
a5203364b1Marshall Bowers committed on 1/10/2024, 3:35:06 PM· committed by GitHubparentaff119b
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