fs: Poll until watched path is created instead of watching parent (#57152)

Self-Review Checklist:

- [x] I've reviewed my own diff for quality, security, and reliability
- [x] Unsafe blocks (if any) have justifying comments
- [x] The content is consistent with the [UI/UX
checklist](https://github.com/zed-industries/zed/blob/main/CONTRIBUTING.md#uiux-checklist)
- [ ] Tests cover the new/changed behavior
- [x] Performance impact has been considered and is acceptable

Closes #ISSUE

Part of FR-9.

Release Notes:

- N/A or Added/Fixed/Improved ...
a0aa3e842fBen Kunkle committed on 5/19/2026, 5:55:54 PM· committed by GitHubparent57a64fc
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