Stabilizes context windows + persistent session/delete for acp agents
that support them

Self-Review Checklist:

- [x] I've reviewed my own diff for quality, security, and reliability
- [x] Unsafe blocks (if any) have justifying comments
- [x] The content is consistent with the [UI/UX
checklist](https://github.com/zed-industries/zed/blob/main/CONTRIBUTING.md#uiux-checklist)
- [x] Tests cover the new/changed behavior
- [x] Performance impact has been considered and is acceptable

Release Notes:

- acp: Show context window usage and cost metrics for external agents
that support it.
- acp: Persist session deletion from history for external agents that
support it.